Summer Fun in Recovery

Recovery doesn’t have to be an obstacle to finding love; it can be a tool for helping you create healthier relationships than you had before. There are plenty of ways you can enjoy a healthy relationship and maintain your sobriety. That's why we've come up with six tips to help make dating in recovery a little easier.

  1. 1. Establish Boundaries

    When dating while in recovery, it is important to set boundaries with your potential partner or the people you are interacting with. Make sure that you aren't being taken for granted and that any expectations for physical intimacy are established before engaging in any activities. You should also make sure that your partner is supportive of your recovery. If certain situations or behaviors feel triggering to you, your partner should be respectful of your needs.

  2. 2. Have A Support System

    Having a strong support system is essential for a successful recovery, no matter what issues you are facing. With any major life change comes a new layer of emotions and experiences. Having a good support system to lean on when things come up during your dating journey can be incredibly valuable in keeping up the momentum. Keep in touch with your trusted friends and family and talk to them openly about what you are struggling with. You might also consider enlisting the help of a therapist or addiction counselor to have someone more familiar with addiction recovery who may be able to provide further insight.

  3. 3. Don't Focus Solely On Romance

    The recovery journey is filled with many opportunities for growth that do not need to involve romantic relationships. Connecting with friends, finding hobbies, and learning new skills can all be enriching experiences that provide a healthier form of connection than what might be found in unhealthy relationships. Make sure you are exploring your self-development before searching for a romantic partner. The more you know yourself and your own needs, the better you will be able to recognize when a relationship is a good fit for you.

  4. 4. Choose Wisely

    In addition to setting healthy boundaries, it's also important to take time when selecting potential partners or dates. When dating in recovery, it’s important to take things slowly and give yourself time to adjust and get used to the idea of being with someone else again. Give yourself time to process your emotions and explore who you are as a person without relying on substances or another person to define you. Be patient and look for compatibility over instant gratification; choose someone who will understand and support your commitment to recovery rather than pull at it from outside forces such as alcohol or drug use.

  5. 5. Nurture Yourself

    Recovery is an emotional rollercoaster, but by taking the time to nurture yourself, you'll be more equipped to handle it when things get tough. Take time out of your routine to focus on self-care activities like meditation, exercise, hobbies, and more. It can be helpful to have other positive things to keep your spirits high and help you push through the difficult moments that may arise while navigating relationships.

  6. 6. Evaluate Your Feelings

    During this process, it is essential to reevaluate how you're feeling regularly, no matter how often you date or who you date. This helps ensure that both parties are on the same page emotionally and mentally, which can minimize the chances of relapse or other issues arising during dating scenarios like miscommunication or disagreements. You should also take some time to check in with yourself. Make sure that you are feeling comfortable with everything you're doing and that your recovery is still on the right track as you enter the dating world.

Navigating the world of dating in addiction recovery can be a challenge, but it is possible. By setting boundaries, having a strong support system, focusing on self-development, choosing wisely, nurturing yourself, and re-evaluating often, you can find success in both your dating journey and recovery journey. If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction during this time, don't hesitate to reach out for help. Gateway Rehab is dedicated to helping individuals reach sustainable recovery all year long.

At Gateway Rehab, our priority is to guide patients toward a life of sustained recovery. Our team recognizes that not every patient shares the same path to sobriety, and that is why we customize treatment options that address each individual’s personal needs and goals. If you or a loved one are currently struggling with addiction, we are here to help. Schedule your first appointment with one of our recovery centers(opens in a new tab) today or call 1-800-472-1177 for more information.